The Waiting Game…HELP!

Here I am. Over 24 hours since I’ve heard from Prince Charming. I even tried to play it cool and send a text last night about the Breaking Bad finale. No response. Oh but he tweeted and posted on Instagram.  Then about half an hour ago I did what I was trying so hard not to do- the “Hi.” text. We all know what that means: Helloooo remember me ya know the girl you spent the weekend with?!

Ugh. I just don’t know what to do. Obviously that should be MY last attempt to contact HIM right? Or do I try to call tonight? I feel like I’ve made enough of an attempt at this point and I shouldn’t have really been the one to contact him in the first place after our romantic getaway date #2 considering the “old fashioned gentleman” he appears to be. 

I wouldn’t be freaking out if this was someone local and it just didn’t work. But it was totally working. The confusing part is WHY did he spend SO MUCH MONEY on someone he barely knows and why did he say- wait for it…. “I Love You” BEFORE we met. Who goes through all of this for a girl to just never call her again.

I know, I know- it’s only been a day and he’s probably been at work since 8am and will be on set directing until probably midnight this week while he’s shooting. And if we had plans to see each other again I wouldn’t be freaking out. I know I’m being obsessive but I’d rather blog about it than be about it TO HIM. But honestly- what DO I DO? Comments are welcome…actually encouraged. What would you do in this situation? Wait around? And for how long? Or continue to pursue dating others?! HELP! PLEASE!

On a lighter note- I experienced violet and blue hair chalk today. It was a LOT of fun and looks really cool. 

4 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. ldr13
    Oct 01, 2013 @ 20:55:09

    I HATE the waiting game. Over the years I became so used to it because the guys I dated were all about that. It was awful but I just figured that’s how it is. There were two occasions where I mentioned it to my current (and amazing) partner. The one day he messaged me in the morning but didn’t message again til the next morning (about 24 hours) and I was not happy. But ever since I told him that it made me angry he’s been great. I wake up to a message every morning and we chat throughout the day, and if ever he will be out of contact for any reason he let’s me know. I never knew a relationship could be this easy or this great; he makes the time for me because he wants to and he wants to make me happy. Makes me wonder why I spent years begging for affection from guys who would throw you crumbs of affection when they felt like it.

    If he said he loves you and seems serious like that then I would confront him about it. Let him know you’d like if he kept up more contact with you. If things don’t change it’s not worth waiting around for a guy when there’s better ones out there that won’t keep you waiting and will be more considerate of your feelings. That’s just my two cents. Hope it all works out for you 🙂

    Reply

    • konfusedkat
      Oct 01, 2013 @ 22:45:27

      Thank you so much for your advice… It really gives me hope for the future. I still haven’t heard from him, in fact he’s ignoring me at this point. So I’m going to move on…I don’t think he cares… And I need someone that does. Thank you so much!

      Reply

      • ldr13
        Oct 01, 2013 @ 22:50:31

        You’re very welcome 🙂 I’m glad you value yourself enough to demand that you be treated right. It’s so easy to get caught up trying to please a boy that you forget they are supposed to make you happy too. I’m sure you’ll find someone who wants to give all their time to you and you will be so glad you didn’t waste your time on someone playing hard to get (or whatever it is they are doing) 🙂 best of luck to you!

      • konfusedkat
        Oct 01, 2013 @ 23:05:26

        Thank you so much!!! You’re amazing. Your advice helped a lot. Xo

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